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Pamela M. (McCabe) Roberts

Funeral services for Pamela M. (McCabe) Roberts, age 51, of Cincinnati, OH and formerly of Ogdensburg, NY, will be held on Friday, June 14, 2019, at 1:00PM at St. Mary’s Cathedral with Rev. Joseph Morgan officiating. Burial will be in Notre Dame Cemetery. Calling hours will be held from 3:00PM to 5:00PM on Thursday, June 13, 2019, at Frary Funeral Home, Ogdensburg. Mrs. Roberts passed away on Friday, June 7, 2019, at the home of her mother, Lucy, in Shelby, NC.

Pamela is survived by her loving husband, Randy, of Cincinnati, OH; her mother, Lucy McCabe of Shelby, NC; her brother, Timothy A. McCabe of Potsdam, NY; a sister, Colleen McCabe Richter and her husband, Keith of Mooresville, NC; a niece and nephew, Jonathan Atchie and Emily Richter and several cousins. She is predeceased by her father, John McCabe, in 2014.

Pamela was born on December 8, 1967, in Ogdensburg, NY, the daughter of John E. and Lucy Tombolillo McCabe. She graduated from Potsdam High School in 1986 and later attended North Country Community College, took classes at Ohio State University, and she was a trained massage therapist and reflexologist. Pamela married Randy Roberts on Valentine’s Day, February 14, 1998 in Gatlinburg, Tennessee. At the time of her illness, she was employed by Fresh Thyme Farmer’s Market as Assistant Manager. She had also initiated a special spot in Jungle Jim’s Super International Market.

Pamela had many friends. She was a huge dog lover and was accompanied by her dog, Tucker, until the end. Pamela was passionate about volunteering at the local no kill shelter during her free time. She also was involved with International Dance.

Donations may be made in Pamela’s memory to Louie’s Legacy Animal Rescue ,4725 Boomer Road, Cincinnati, OH 45247 or https://www.paypal.me/louieslegacy, “In Memory of Pamela Roberts” may also be added in the memo portion.

35 Condolences

  • Gene Hoffmeyer Posted June 10, 2019 7:24 PM

    Sorry for your loss, heaven has a new angel.

  • Kimberly Trent Posted June 10, 2019 7:32 PM

    My heart and prayers are with Pam’s beautiful family.

  • Ernie Napoles Posted June 10, 2019 7:32 PM

    You were a sweet Facebook friend and a Patriot. Will surely miss your great smile and the obvious affection you shared with your doggie Tucker ! May God provide comfort and healing to your family.

  • Deborah Spencer Posted June 10, 2019 7:33 PM

    I’m heartbroken to hear this of Pamela I will miss her 💫

  • Bruce Tippett Posted June 10, 2019 7:39 PM

    I am truly, so sorry to hear of this. She is one of the sweetest people l have ever had the fortune of meeting on Facebook. The world without Pam is a darker place now, but Heaven is a lot brighter. May our all loving God ease your sorrow, and your period of grieving, brief.

  • Jim mitchell Posted June 10, 2019 8:04 PM

    Words aren’t enough to express one’s sorrow for your loss, but with God’s word it can help you through this difficult time. My wife and I send are deepest sympathy to you and your family.

  • Allison Cass Posted June 10, 2019 8:04 PM

    I am truly sorry for your loss. Pam was such a beautiful person inside and out ❤️

  • Estella Bunny Howe Posted June 10, 2019 8:19 PM

    She was an awesome FB friend for years. Always upbeat and full of life.
    God bless her and her family.

  • Peggy Yang Posted June 10, 2019 8:29 PM

    I miss Pam. She was a fighter against cancer, a great role model how to live a healthier life with natural foods and healing. I am sorry that I did not have a chance to talk to her one last time.

  • Anita G Hitchcock Posted June 10, 2019 9:02 PM

    My sincere condolences to family and friends. Heaven gained an Angel…..

  • Tina Taillon Posted June 10, 2019 9:09 PM

    So sorry for everyone’s loss. I will forever miss my dear friend Pam. We spent endless hours of long phone calls and she was a huge part of my life. It breaks my heart that I will never hear her voice or see her again. I will miss you Pam you were one of my best friends. Until we meet again. May God heal your family durning this time of sorrow. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with the people who love you. God speed.

  • Trish Brown Posted June 10, 2019 9:27 PM

    Forgive me as I am not very good at this, I am just a FB friend of Pam’s. It was a shock to me that she had cancer, it is such a horrible disease. My condolences go out to her loved ones and her sweet dog. She will be surely missed. She and I had something in common and that is our love for dogs! They cannot be spoiled enough. I will miss sharing dog posts with her. She had a wonderful heart. My prayers go out to all who grieve. The only comfort is that she is with Lord Jesus.

  • Linda Blase Posted June 10, 2019 10:34 PM

    Pamela did not die, because she lives in the hearts of all of us who loved her. May the angels cradle her in their loving arms…

  • Gary Sapoff Posted June 10, 2019 10:56 PM

    Please accept my condolence from Gary and Josefina Sapoff

  • Rene stricker Posted June 10, 2019 11:03 PM

    You were a true jewel, I know Jesus needed you but our hearts are broken with you gone❤️

  • Hope Stiles Posted June 10, 2019 11:26 PM

    She will be greatly miss..sorry for your loss,

  • Lynette Marshall Posted June 10, 2019 11:55 PM

    My sweet Facebook friend, I will truely miss your beautiful smile, heart and soul. God has you back and I know you are at peace. My thoughts and prayers are with all your family and friends, you are loved and missed by all.

  • John W. Norton Posted June 11, 2019 1:56 AM

    My thoughts and prayers are with her wonderful family! She will be missed!

  • Tom Clark Posted June 11, 2019 7:03 AM

    I too am a Face Book Friend she will be sadly missed. What a great lady.

  • April Rastkey Bonham Posted June 11, 2019 8:13 AM

    I’m deeply saddened by this news as I knew Pam since kindergarten and haven’t seen her in a very long time but was in facebook with her. She was always putting childhood pics on her. I had a brain tumor removed this last March and she always kept up with my progress. I live in MT but if I was home I would come to the funeral so I’m want her family to know how sorry I’m for their loss but they can take comfort in that Pam is out of pain.

  • Daniel Pearson Posted June 11, 2019 6:20 PM

    So sorry for your loss Lucy and family

  • Ron and Tee Johnson Posted June 11, 2019 9:44 PM

    Tim, sincere condolences on the loss of your loved one. Prayers for you and all of her family.

  • Barbara LaRose Sexton Posted June 11, 2019 10:12 PM

    To Pam’s family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers!!! Pam was a wonderful friend. We had some good times in school and in skating. She was a beautiful soul inside and out. I will miss talking with her on FB. I know Heaven gain another Angel!!! But I truly believe she is watching over everyone she loved, and will be with her loved ones until we all meet again. May God bless and comfort you all!!! Pam you are truly loved and missed!!

  • Lori and Jack Rahn Posted June 12, 2019 8:45 AM

    So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this difficult time.

  • Disney-McLane Posted June 12, 2019 9:43 AM

    So sorry for your loss Randy, and extended family. Prayers to you during this hard time.

  • Jeff Stone Posted June 12, 2019 3:57 PM

    Dear Pam. You were a beautiful soul, a beautiful woman, and a true friend to many. Some people never fulfill their purpose in life, but somehow I think you surpassed yours. No one you touched walked away lesser for it. Everyone you touched was somehow blessed by you.. and many were (i suspect) better off in some way afterward. Your heart was your guide and now… if there is a way you will continue to touch all of us from afar. If you were Catholic I suspect you would pass straight by purgatory and go straight to heaven… Your family will grieve at your loss, but they were lucky to have had you there for as long as they did. I pray they will find comfort soon. God did bless you!

  • Joanna Ling Russell Posted June 12, 2019 7:47 PM

    So sorry for your loss, your family is in our prayers 🙏🙏❤️❤️

  • Antonio Cruz Posted June 12, 2019 9:28 PM

    My thoughts and prayers are with her loving family!

  • Rani Kotha Posted June 13, 2019 1:53 PM

    Dear Pam. It’s been 30+ years since we were in touch and the last time I saw you was during one of the beauty pageants that we participated in 1985. A friend mentioned that you had posted the newspaper photo of us finalists on your Facebook. I saw the pic and was reminded of not only of your external beauty…but of your beautiful heart and soul. I also didn’t realize that we both have the same birthday (Dec 8th). Perhaps that is part of the connection we shared…as I often thought fondly of you over the years.

  • Lorie Trombley Mattoon Posted June 13, 2019 3:04 PM

    My heart is broken Dear cousin Pam and I miss you so. I will always be forever thankful for all of our fun memories growing up, we were like Salt n Pepper, I will miss your sweet voice and kind Encouraging Heart. I know you are at peace and the Lord is taking care of you. I know in my heart also you are with your Dad,(uncle John) and probably having an Irish Dance. Lol! I can see it and my heart tells me not to be sad, but I will always Love & Miss ya girl! 🙁

  • Janice Graveline Silver Posted June 13, 2019 3:05 PM

    Lucy, Anne, Carolyn and families. I am so very sorry and offer my sincere condolences to the family. Prayers for comfort.

  • Kayla Rosen-Doucet Posted June 13, 2019 3:41 PM

    Tim, my dear, what words can I possibly say that will ease the pain that you and your family are feeling? All I can tell you is that Pam was a kind and beautiful soul. It shone bright and strong and made the people around her love her and be happy. Pam was a special person. We will all miss her forever. My condolences to you and your family, blessings to you all.

  • Janet Dubrule Posted June 13, 2019 4:00 PM

    Dear Lucy I am so very sorry to hear of your Daughters passing. Love and Many Blessings to You and Your Family.

  • Regina (Rose) Randall Posted June 14, 2019 9:22 AM

    To Pam’s family. May God give all of you strength and peace knowing she is at rest with her Heavenly Father. Pam was a great friend in school and will be remembered for her beautiful soul. May she Rest In Peace forever and ever!🌹🙏❤️

  • Kathleen Eagles Posted June 15, 2019 5:48 PM

    To Our Dear friend Lucy , and family. So very saddened to hear of Pam’s passing. Our hearts are broken for all of you.. Would love to see you Lucy if you are still here in town. . God Bless .

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