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Pamela S. Lalonde

Pamela S. Lalonde, age 62, of Madrid, NY, passed away on Friday, April 12, 2019, at her home surrounded by her loving family. There will be no services per her request.  Arrangements are entrusted to Frary Funeral Home & Cremation Services, Ogdensburg.

Pamela is survived by her loving husband James, of Madrid, NY; their children, Timothy Lalonde and his wife, Katie, of Ogdensburg NY, Kimberly and her Fiance, Ben Pinet of Rennselaer Falls, NY, James M. Lalonde and his wife, Alisha of Macomb, NY; five grandchildren; five sisters, Rebecca Claxton and her husband, Christopher, of Ogdensburg, Karen Watson and her husband Mark Watson, of Cleveland, NY; Lisa Hanss and her husband Frederick Hanss, of Hannawa Falls, Marybeth LaRock, of Ogdensburg; Dawn Lockwood and her husband Richard Lockwood, of Ogdensburg; four brothers, Leon M. and his wife Katherine LaRock, of Ogdensburg, Raymond and his wife Kelly LaRock, of Lisbon; David and his wife Brandi LaRock, of Ogdensburg; Darren and his wife Cassandra LaRock, of Lisbon; and many nieces, nephews and cousins.

Pamela was born on December 29, 1956, in Ogdensburg, NY, the daughter of Leon and Doris Scovil LaRock. She graduated from Lisbon Central School in 1975. Pamela married James Lalonde on June 4, 1976 by the Justice of the Peace. Pamela first worked at United Helper’s Riverledge Nursing Home as a Dietary Aide, later working as a Certified Nurse’s Aide.

Pamela enjoyed spending time with her family, friends, and grandchildren.  She loved the outdoors, bird watching, boating with her husband and family and was an avid animal lover especially her cat, “Precious”.  Pamela also loved to cook and bake for family and friends.


Donations may be made in Pamela’s memory to Potsdam Human Society, 17 Madrid Ave., Potsdam, New York 13676.

34 Condolences

  • Tim Cryderman Posted April 14, 2019 6:13 AM

    So sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you

  • debbie burns Posted April 14, 2019 6:22 AM

    my prayers and sympathy to all of you. your mom and wife, grandmother was a great women had many great times with her bowling ..will always remember them
    rip my dear friend

  • Bill Nelson Posted April 14, 2019 7:37 AM

    So sorry for your loss of Pam. Another good person taken way too soon. The Lalonde and Larock families are in my thoughts and prayers. Rest In Peace Pam

  • Carol Wade Posted April 14, 2019 9:25 AM

    Jimmy, this is Carolann Lashua, I didn’t get to meet Pam but we became friends online and I found her to be a wonderful person to know; so sorry for your loss. I love you and your family.

  • Nancy and Greg Posted April 14, 2019 12:32 PM

    So sorry for the loss of Pam. Condolences

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  • Ginnie Demers Posted April 15, 2019 9:12 AM

    Peace & prayers for all…

  • Rolly Jandrew Posted April 15, 2019 2:42 PM

    sorry for your loss Jim and family, prayers being sent

  • Kimberly Lalonde Posted April 16, 2019 12:26 AM

    You are missed dearly. You were the strongest woman I have ever known.

  • Jeremy Cota Posted April 16, 2019 12:02 PM

    Sorry for your lost, thoughts an prayers sent to the family!!!

  • Tami LaRose Posted April 16, 2019 12:26 PM

    Praying for all of you, LaRock and Laonde families, that you get through this very difficult time, and that your pain eases with time. ..all my love to all of you…

  • Linda Hodge Posted April 16, 2019 12:47 PM

    So sorry for your loss. Prayers going out for all.

  • Nick LeDuc Posted April 16, 2019 12:48 PM

    I’ve known Pam pretty much my entire life. She has been one of the kindest most understanding women I’ve ever met. She was at some level a mother to me in my younger years and for that I’ll always be grateful. My thoughts are with Tim ,Kim, Jim ,Jim sr. Words can’t say enough what a great impact she had on my life. Hopefully your up there looking down on all of us making sure we are still doing what we are supposed to be’ll be more then missed …love you always Pam..

    I’m so glad I sent you that message recently and really thanked you for everything over the years ..Thanks for being you !

    • Kimberly Lalonde Posted April 20, 2019 3:05 AM

      Love you

    • Kimberly Lalonde Posted April 20, 2019 3:06 AM

      You’ve always been part of the family. Like a brother to all of us. Love you ❤

  • Bill Merna Posted April 16, 2019 1:16 PM

    Very sorry Tim and to all of Pam’s family.

  • Michael and Barb Pinkerton Posted April 16, 2019 2:18 PM

    So sorry for your loss. May your sorrow be lessened by the great memories of Pam that you all have. Wishing all of the Lalonde and Larock families peace and healing.

  • Bucky & Jodi Bresett Posted April 16, 2019 2:45 PM

    I’m so very sorry for your loss. Pam was a wonderful woman and will be greatly missed

  • David Valois Posted April 16, 2019 3:39 PM

    Condolences to all of Pam’s family.

  • Debbie duprey Posted April 16, 2019 5:12 PM

    Thoughts and prayers to the larock and lalonde families may she rest in peace. So sorry for your loss. Hank and debbie

  • Joanne poore Posted April 16, 2019 5:54 PM

    A Dear friend and sweetheart . Many good memories with her and jimmy . RIP my friend . I know your with the angels . Hugs to the kids Love Joanne & Carl Poore

  • Dave & Anne Donnelly. Posted April 16, 2019 6:24 PM

    Becky and family, so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

  • Warren MCLEAR Posted April 16, 2019 6:25 PM

    So sorry for your loss Jim and family Pam was one of the best people I knew and I was with her and Jim when they started dating which led to there marriage May you find peace in all the good memories and realize she is pain free now

  • MIKE SARGENT Posted April 16, 2019 6:29 PM

    Timmy and family, so sorry for your loss.

  • Bonnie Larock Paige Posted April 17, 2019 7:35 AM

    Becky, Karen, Lisa, so sorry for your loss I didn’t know her but still sadden to here of her passing this awful disease too many people are taking by this nasty disease will keep your family in my my thoughts and prayers RIP sweet woman.

  • Lisa Creighton Posted April 17, 2019 8:49 AM

    Condolences to all your loved ones pam…you were one of the sweetest people I have ever known.

  • terry dominie Posted April 17, 2019 9:10 AM

    Pam was an amazing woman! Bowling with her and Jim was always a fun night…fly high my friend!

  • Kathy and Jerry Richards Posted April 17, 2019 11:27 AM

    So sorry to all the family for the loss of your loved one Pam. Thoughts and prayers 🙏🏻

  • Tim Durand Posted April 17, 2019 11:57 AM

    sorry to hear of Pam’s passing thoughts and prayers to the family

  • Terry Weegar Posted April 17, 2019 10:04 PM

    To Jim and all of your family, so sorry for your loss . My thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bkess.

  • Rena & Jay Rolfe Posted April 18, 2019 6:38 PM

    So sorry for your loss of Pam, she was a kind person who left us too early. She will be missed.

  • Maureen Fennessy Posted April 18, 2019 9:36 PM

    Sincere condolences to Pam’s Family. So sorry for your loss. May all the Happy Memories help you through this difficult time. Sincerely Maureen Fennessy

  • Debbie Montgomery. & family Posted April 20, 2019 11:16 AM

    You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Pam was such an amazing person and we loved her. At one point, we were all, one big happy family! Time changes things and people move around, but the love is always there. We will always love 💕 and miss her. Our hearts ache for all , left behind. RIP my sweet friend. Until we meet again

  • Michael and Jennifer Murphy Posted April 20, 2019 6:55 PM

    So sorry to hear of your loss! Our thoughts and prayers are with you all ♡

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