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Theodore R. LaJoy, Jr.

Mr. Theodore R. LaJoy, Jr., age 69, of Ogdensburg, passed away on Wednesday, November 29, 2017, at Claxton Hepburn Medical Center. Per his request there will be no funeral services or calling hours. Arrangements are entrusted to Frary Funeral Home & Cremation Services.

Amongst Theodore’s survivors are his children; a companion, Patricia Clark, of Morristown, NY and his sister, Norma Brennan, of Ottawa, Ontario Canada and many nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by two brothers, John R. Rivet in 2009 and Alfred “Moe” LaJoy in 2017 and a sister, Sharon Ward, in 2009.

Theodore was born on November 23, 1948, in Ogdensburg, NY, the son of Theodore and Marvel Lesperance LaJoy. He attended local schools. Theodore worked for Trimm’s Trucking in Norfolk, NY.


  • Btw da lovely laplante Posted December 2, 2017 10:46 AM

    Sorry for hour lost he was a great man God bless

  • robin downey Posted December 4, 2017 10:11 PM

    So Sorry Pat For Your Loss Prayer’s To All

  • Marlene Warrer Posted December 6, 2017 3:04 PM

    So sorry for your loss Pat. He will be missed by all of cousins and family.My mother and his mother were sisters. Your all in my prayers.

  • Rosemary LaJoy Posted December 8, 2017 8:31 PM

    RIP “Smokey “ I’m know that your sister Norma.& your 2 daughters are thinking of you with their deepest heartfelt thoughts . Both your sister Norma & myself, Feel that you deserved a much more of a service and obituary then you got. We understand that your last wishes were for no service or calling hours but you were a United States Marine with honorable discharge that got left out of your obituary.. along with your much loved 2 daughters names. Your death should not have been a secret ..your sister Norma was very upset that it went viral on Facebook before she found out..which I’m sorry is just plain rude & disrespectful.. but then again we all consider the source . So on that note “Smokey” until we all meet again ❤️❤️❤️

  • Melanie L Jerome-Dafoe Posted December 29, 2017 3:52 PM

    Smokey, you will be greatly missed, for sure! How we had good visits when we ran into one another. I only found out about your passing, today, which is one month to the day that you passed. I only wish that I would have known that you were ill … Lee and I would have made it a point to be there for you. Cousin, may you Rest in Peace; you are in a much better place now.

  • Sara Jane Lffin Posted October 1, 2018 1:03 PM

    Dear Smokey , I was thinking of you for reasons you must have wanted me to know of your passing. I googled your name and to my answer . It was a year ago in Nonmember you passed . My heart will all ways love you and your kind ways. I believe you are with me as I write to you., I hope to see you in heaven when my day comes. From Indiana

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